i cried reading this (taken from iluvislam)..yeah..i miss em a lot..
"True friendship is like sound health, the value of it is seldom known until it is lost"
How many of us are blessed with close friends and best friends-
the ones whom we knew loved us to the bits, the ones whom we knew would be there for us when we are in need, the ones who dared to give us the blatant truth when others preferred to zip their mouth and let us fall and the ones whom we knew would leak tears from their eyes if we were to leave the world before them?
The recompense for an evil is an evil like thereof, but whoever forgives and makes reconciliation, his reward is due from Allah. Verily, He likes not the Zalimun (oppressors)
Yes, that is the only way to go- reconcile.
We are living a life that is too short to make enemies, to leave things unsaid and to have frictions with the people we love.
This was not what Prophet Muhammad (may Allaah’s peace and blessings be upon him) wanted us to do.
In fact, what our Prophet (PBUH) wanted us to do was this,
"When a man loves his brother he should tell him that he loves him " (Abu Dawud, Tirmidhi)
Tell the people you loved, that you loved them. Take this advice of our beloved Prophet who was sent down to guide us in our lives, who was sent to make our lives better and who only wanted good things for us in this life and hereafter.
What you said hurt me
I responded in anger
You meant to say you were sorry
I meant to forgive you
What you did was so very wrong
I responded with harsh judgment
You meant to make amends
I meant to be more understanding
You meant to call or write
I waited hoping to hear from you
You got busy with life
I meant to try again; to call or write
You said, “I might try to change and do better.”
I said, “I won’t budge until I see your sorrow.”
You said, “There is always tomorrow.”
I said, “I will forgive on your tomorrow.
Our tomorrow never came
One of us died.
There is today.
Don’t hold on to yesterday.
Don’t count on tomorrow.
It may not come
You have today
Don’t let love and hope slip away.
no matter how hard u try u keep failing
mean u need to try harder..sobs=(